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Relaxation can be one of the most effective tools to manage your PASC symptoms like fatigue, pain, and stress. Ongoing symptoms of PASC do not need to be met with alarm. If we can calm ourselves, we can also calm our nervous system, reduce our stress, and give ourselves a chance to find other ways to cope with our fatigue, body aches, sleep problems, stress, and depressed or anxious mood.

“I try to relax, but I can’t or it doesn’t help”

Do you still feel tense even after trying to relax? Resting your physical body (e.g., lying on the couch or watching TV) is partly helpful, but the full relaxation response also involves mental relaxation. The relaxation response occurs when you teach your body and mind how to relax more fully and on command by using active relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing. As you practice these techniques, they will become more natural and help you reach a state of total calm and relaxation.

Click on the sections below to learn about specific relaxation activities to help manage your PASC symptoms. There is also information on how to overcome relaxation barriers and challenges.

Understand Your Need for Relaxation

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When humans face any kind of threat, our bodies respond through something called the “fight-or-flight response”. During the flight-or-fight response the body prepares itself for action. This includes:

  • Bringing extra blood flow to muscles
  • Increasing heart rate and blood pressure
  • Increasing muscle tension

The fight-or-flight response is designed to help us survive danger in rare moments of extreme need. The body was not meant to be this way all the time. However, some things like stress and chronic illness can keep the flight-or-flight response turned on in our bodies. A long-term fight-or-flight response is harmful to our physical and mental well-being. The symptoms of an overly active fight-flight response are extra fatigue, stress, and pain.

We calm our bodies through relaxation strategies. A state of relaxation is the opposite of the fight-or-flight response. Relaxation changes how you physically and mentally manage stress.

What Are Relaxation Benefits?

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Relaxation is a helpful tool for PASC symptoms like fatigue, body aches, sleep problems, stress, and depressed or anxious mood. This is because:

  • Tense muscles make body aches worse. Your body naturally protects itself by tensing muscles around an area that hurts or needs protection. When your muscles are tense for too long, your body aches may worsen. Relaxation helps decrease this muscle tension that occurs when you experience pain.
  • Relaxation also counters the well-known negative effects of stress on body aches and other physical problems
  • Relaxation benefits areas of the brain that sense and reduce pain.
  • It is common to feel tense when you feel depressed or anxious. Relaxation helps decrease physical and mental tension that can make depression and anxiety worse.
  • Relaxation can help you sleep better. See the Sleep Module for more information.
  • Relaxation is a good way to take a break or “time-out” from stressful situations or emotions. It is a helpful activity you can do to take care of yourself.
  • People are usually better at planning and problem solving when they feel relaxed compared to when they are stressed.

Try Some Relaxation Strategies

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  1. Autogenic Relaxation

Click here for a guided exercise on autogenic relaxation that will help you decrease bodily tension through deep breathing and awareness.

  • Duration: 10 minutes
  • Diminishes physiological arousal
  • Trains the body to calm physiological processes

  1. Deep Breathing

The following audio is designed to teach you how to breathe deeper and more effectively, which may decrease your anxiety and improve your mood.

  • Duration: 5 minutes
  • Improves the quality of your breathing to help you relax.
  • One of the easiest and most effective relaxation skills

  1. Guided Imagery

The following audio will guide you through a visualization exercise where you remember a place that you feel fondly about and focus all your attention on that setting.

  • Duration: 6 minutes
  • Uses mental imagery of calm places to induce relaxation
  • Uses all your senses to produce a vivid mental image that distracts you from stress

  1. Body Scans – Exercise 1

The following clip will guide you through a floor relaxation exercise aimed at decreasing bodily tension.

  • Duration: 6 minutes
  • Mentally scan your body for stress
  • Decreases tension

  1. Body Scans - Exercise 2

Listen to the audio below for a chair relaxation exercise that will release stress in your body.

  • Duration: 7 minutes
  • Mentally scan your body for stress
  • Decreases tension

Mindfulness Meditation

The audio below is a guided meditation that will help you focus on the present moment.

  • Duration: 2 minutes
  • Focuses one’s attention on the present moment
  • Allows negative thoughts to flow through one’s mind without evoking stress
  • When we do not attach our minds to negative thoughts, they have less energy, and it is easier to let them go.

Mini Progressive Muscle Relaxation

The following audio will guide you through a relaxation exercise in which you learn to tense and release different muscles in your body.

  • Duration: 4 minutes
  • A quick technique for achieving the relaxation response
  • Recommended after you have mastered other techniques that take longer
  • Can be more easily applied in real-world settings outside the home

How to Practice Relaxation Often

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Practicing relaxation often, even when you feel well, can help improve your symptoms and reduce anxiety. The more you use relaxation, the more you will benefit from it. Here are some tips for regular relaxation practice:

  • Try to practice a relaxation technique once per day for 10-30 minutes.
  • Even practicing for five minutes a day can help you learn this skill, and using it becomes more and more automatic. This amount of time is enough to achieve benefits from the practice.
  • It is best to practice relaxation when your symptoms are mild to moderate, not severe.
  • Try to find a quiet calm and quiet place to relax within your home or living space. Dedicating a special place in your life for this practice can make this a habit, much like brushing your teeth and getting ready for the day.
  • Find a time of day that works best for you. Many individuals find that doing this practice first thing in the morning or at the end of the day, are nice times to integrate this into your routine.
  • Use guided recordings in your practice
  • The more you practice, the more this tool will benefit you when your symptoms are worse.
  • Use a journal to log when you practice. You may also rate your stress level before and after practicing, using a 0-10 rating scale (0 = not at all stressed to 10 = worst stress/discomfort imaginable).

Overcome Barriers to Relaxation

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It might seem counterproductive to spend time practicing relaxation when life is so busy. However, relaxation may improve your pain, stress, and ability to focus on what you are doing. Below are some common barriers people face when learning to control their body’s relaxation response.

  • “I don’t have time to practice.”: Your ability to relax can improve with regular practice. Start by practicing for just 5 minutes each morning or evening and simply be mindful of your breathing, something that is always with you and available for practice. With time, it may become easier for you to relax as you learn how to do it. You may start looking forward to your “relaxation time.”
  • “I want to relax, but other people need me.”: Sometimes, other people need you, leaving you little or no time for yourself. Your time is precious and something that you have control over.  Explain to them that having time for yourself to relax may help reduce your pain, raise your energy level, and ease your stress. To protect this time, you may want to talk with them about how much they can ask of you and when. It may feel selfish at first, but it is important that you make time to take care of yourself. You must learn to help yourself, before you can aid others.  The Communication Module may help you with this.
  • “I’m not sure I’m relaxing the right way.”: If the approaches discussed here aren’t working for you, there are other books, tapes, and classes that can help you learn more ways to relax. In addition to practicing some form of relaxation most days, a good way to tell if you are being effective is to write down what you are doing.
  • “I don’t feel comfortable when I relax.”: If you are not used to sitting in silence, it’s possible you may become anxious or more aware of any bodily discomfort at first instead of feeling calm and rested. This new awareness of your body and mind is normal, especially if you’re used to feeling tense. A small number of people may get very emotional and upset when they try certain relaxation techniques. If this happens to you, feel free to take a pause in your practice. If possible, talk with your healthcare provider about what you are feeling.
  • “I have a hard time sitting still.”: For some people, it is hard to sit or lie still when they are first practicing relaxation. If this is true for you, you might try a movement relaxation exercise. This might include doing some gentle stretches and focusing on your breathing, or practicing deep breathing while on a slow, relaxing walk. As you get more and more comfortable with your relaxation practice, you can incorporate new elements, such as stillness.
  • “It’s hard making relaxation a priority.”: For the relaxation response to work, you need to practice regularly. If you are having problems practicing, think about the benefits of relaxation for you. But go easy on yourself. It may take practice to make relaxation a regular part of your life.

A Note for Family and Friends

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When people we care about are struggling with their symptoms, it’s normal to want to help them. Helping someone who is ill to relax or practice a relaxation technique, even for just a few minutes, may have important health benefits. You may find these techniques helpful for you too! You can support a person who is feeling unwell by:

  • Helping with daily chores and tasks so he or she has more time to take care of herself or himself.
  • Doing a relaxation exercise together such as deep breathing, stretching, muscle relaxation, and meditation
  • Encourage the person you care about to take time to enjoy other calming activities such as:
    • Going for a walk
    • Watching a movie
    • Playing with a pet
    • Calling a friend or family member
    • Listening to music or audio story
  • Check in with you family member or friend to see if they are making progress towards their relaxation goals.
  • Recommend scheduling relaxation time on the calendar so that it won’t be forgotten.

Further Reading and Other Resources

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There are many additional resources available to help you find a relaxation practice that works well for you. Consider the following options:

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